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Thursday, 30 January 2014

To hurt somebody..!!

Ever imagined how many people we hurt sometimes?
It might have been intentional, unintentional or influenced..
Whatever be the type, the result is the same... A lot of negative energy joining hands with a broken heart which results in a person sulking or planning revenge..

I speak of this with such conviction as many a times i have been a Victim and sometimes the Instigator..!!
When I've been the VICTIM, its the usual... feeling sad, replaying the event ( which according to me is the worst thing an individual can torture himself to), thinking of how i could have ended the spat..!! Thinking of evil plans sometimes to get back at him/her.. etc

When I've been the CULPRIT , i really tend to lose it, and the opposite person has it from me.. its like a wave of anger for no reason.. maybe that person didn't get my notebook.. but I'll shout at him like he murdered my family...

Sounds too vague right..!!
But that's how some of us behave!!
And then comes the next stage for us... the time of GUILT..

After i shout at people for hardly a reason worth shouting, i feel terrible like a heartless stone cold monster.
That feeling kills me and never gets me to peace.. all that i think then is forgiveness.. i know it won't change things as "Words once spoken can never be taken back"

But by apologizing, there would be a certain level of peace and content..
Thus its really good to be patient as being calm will always help!! Saying a sorry would never make u feel like a small guy or as a person accepting defeat..!!

Thus its better many a times to forgive and forget..  as Holding on to a thought keeps hurting you in every interval of your precious life!
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Lancelot is a 24 year old post grad who one day was so bored of his life, that he started to write. The writing he thought would be a one time thing. It's been over a year and the writing has never stopped. Professionally in the field of finance, Lancelot aspires to make his family and himself proud. In his free time, Lancelot loves eating food, reviewing them on Zomato, watching various TV sit-coms, writing of course, playing the keyboard music app on his smartphone, reading crime-murder-mystery... maybe romance novels sometimes, watching a lot of sporting events and making time for his near and dear ones. 

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